Taking a Break

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As opposed to watching the numbers tick over all day, I’m off to do some yoga. It’s always important to give both your mind and body a break from whatever it may be that has been consuming your time and focus lately. Whether you need to go for a walk, play a game, read, watch TV or put on your finest 1800s gown and have a cup of tea whilst listening to Beethoven’s 5th Symphony–it doesn’t matter. What matters is that you’re breaking a cycle.

If your day job, for example, happens to be one for which you are figuratively and/or literally chained to a desk for most of the day, then sitting and reading may not necessarily be a break in your cycle. You need to change not only what your mind is doing, but what your body and emotions are doing also.

People who work as builders take their breaks sitting down, whilst desk workers might go for a walk–or at least they should!

Whatever action best describes the opposite of your routine or day job–do that! The point is not to cheat, and to know in your heart that what you are doing is right for you.

“Man is so made that he can only find relaxation from one kind of labor by taking up another. ” 
–Anatole France, The Crime of Sylvestre Bonnard

Don’t forget about the free book promotion,

Shannon

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How to Attract Amazing, Happy Relationships

ImageIs it possible that you spend so much time taking care of the needs and wants of others that you’ve forgotten to take care of what is most important – you and your happiness? You try to convince yourself that doing things for others makes you happy, and it does give you some joy – but only a little. But when you finally, exhausted of all energy, return home to crawl into bed, dreading the “rinse and repeat” to come tomorrow, it slowly begins to dawn on you that giving and giving and giving really isn’t sustainable. You’ve become so absorbed in servicing the needs of others that it’s drained you of energy; drained you of life.

It’s begun to affect your marriage, your friendships, and even your family (you don’t visit your mother as often as you used to, do you?). You remember that you wanted more from life than this, that you deserve more from life than this. You realize you need to draw the line somewhere; you need to start looking after you. You realize that you’re fed up with being a doormat, that you’re done with the mundane routine of life, that you’re tired of searching for those quality, uplifting friends that you truly deserve…

But it’s ok, because fortunately there is a light at the end of the tunnel – and it’s free: My best-selling book, How to Attract Amazing, Happy Relationships, will help you get to where you want to be; attracting the most amazing, loyal, compassionate and uplifting people into your life that the world has to offer. The book is full of powerful, proven methods and insights into social, family and marriage mentalities that anyone can understand and easily implement. And you can download it free from Amazon, as my gift to you – but only from April 10th–12th.

Inside you will learn:

  • A single phrase that puts an end to unwanted arguments without hostility.
  • Valuable exercises in self-development, enhancing your self-worth; an essential ingredient in healthy relationships.
  • How to finally banish judgments and become free to love easily and happily.
  • The traps of co-dependency and how to avoid these unhealthy relationship patterns.
  • Essential strategies for self-actualization, enabling you to be happy while single and within a loving relationship.
  • How to evaluate your current relationships, enabling you to move easily from toxic persons, allowing you the freedom to be truly you.
  • Methods to cultivate inner strength and positivity, taming your negative self-talk.
  • Simple self-observation techniques to fully understand your relationship patterns and steps to move in a new, happier direction.
  • The true steps to forgiveness and the important and essential role it plays in happiness and fulfilling relationships.
  • The link between discernment and the intricacies of trust and how to develop trusting, caring relationships.

But that’s just the tip of the iceberg…

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“I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” 
―Marilyn Monroe

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The Happiness Voyage

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My father always said that happiness isn’t a destination.

He also said that it isn’t a journey either—”It’s a voyage.”

“Journey” implies that you know the route; that you have done it before and that it is boring and routine. “Voyage”, whilst typically applied to travel by air or sea, is a term that refers to travel to a foreign land, to discovery, to excitement. Voyages in history have all been significant. Christopher Columbus’ discovery of the American mainland was not the result of a mere journey—that too was a voyage.

Why would you discount the value of your life, your potential, your happiness, by calling it only a journey? Your life is a voyage, full of potential and possibility.

Perception is a very powerful thing. By making just this one change in how you see the world, you will open up doors that you never even knew existed. You will rekindle the excitement in your life and, of course, allow yourself to commence your happiness voyage!

If you’d like to learn more about creating happiness just by shifting your perception, be sure to pick up a copy of my “Start With A Smile” series on five booksavailable for a limited time for the price of three!: http://amzn.to/YZpiwg

Happiness isn’t a destination—it’s a voyage.

“Make it so.”
Captain Jean-Luc Picard (Star Trek)

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How to Be Happy with What You’ve Got

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I’ve decided to do a series of book giveaways to gain more exposure and to spread the love. So, starting this Monday, my newly updated How to Be Happy with What You’ve Got is free on Amazon for one day only, so click here to grab it while you can: 

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The next free giveaway for How to Attract Amazing, Happy Relationships is on for a full three days from the 10th of April to the 12th, which can be found through JustFreeStuff.com or on Amazon.com.

Always be sure to take a minute to review in order to share the love!

Namaste,

Shannon

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BE THANKFUL

ImageBe thankful that you don’t already have everything you desire.
If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don’t know something, 
for it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times. 
During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations, 
because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge, 
because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes. 
They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you’re tired and weary, 
because it means you’ve made a difference.

It’s easy to be thankful for the good things. 
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.

Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive. 
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.

–Unknown

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Meditate THIS

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Meditation can be a powerful tool. I was pondering the concept the other day and had to ask a friend why so many people shun the practice.

“Because not many people like to sit around or their arses doing nothing,” was his response.

Crude, but fair. Meditation is considered just that, being still, being quiet. Being bored–on purpose. Of course this couldn’t be further from the truth! In fact meditation is about single-minded focus, like staring at a candle flame, or repeating a mantra–only listening to the words you utter and basking in their meaning. It’s about withdrawing the senses and quietening the mind.

It’s incredibly good for you! Even only five minutes a day can drastically change your life–and honestly, who doesn’t have five minutes? If you still feel you’ll need, say, 100 reasons to become a believer, be sure to check out this:

http://www.ineedmotivation.com/blog/2008/05/100-benefits-of-meditation/

But if the “boring” sit-and-stay mode of meditation isn’t your cup of tea, here are five different types of meditation that might suit you–and some that might even surprise you.

Yoga Nidra: A guided meditation becoming increasingly popular throughout the world. The student is guided through a sleep-like state as their awareness flows over individual parts of their body, before moving on to visualisations. Very powerful.

Mindfulness meditation: Starting at 100 and counting down to 0. Each exhale and inhale is 1 count each, making every even number an exhale and every odd number an inhale. The point is not to cheat! The moment you begin to doubt which number you’re on is the moment that you’ve let your mind stray–however briefly. To get to 0 is actually quite a challenge, particularly for the busy/impatient types. Prepare to be frustrated by it’s child-like simplicity!

Music: When we listen to music our emotional states become attuned to it. Basically, the music shares its emotional state with us. Particularly when combined with our general meditation practice, listening to calm music can help calm your mind as well as your body. The best kind of music is, of course, the music of nature–so try a “sounds of the rainforest” CD and see how it works for you.

Running: Yep, it’s true. Going for a run can kick that focus up a notch, whilst working up a sweat as well! Be sure to run outside, and keep off a treadmill–the body might feel like it’s going somewhere, but the mind knows better! The unbalance between these two “realities” can sometimes take its toll, so get out in the sunlight and do some exploring. The run-to-music combo is quite powerful also.

Gaming: A little harder to believe, but it can be quite therapeutic. Playing a video game does take some focus and because of this it has the power to remove your mind from the troubles of this physical world. Unfortunately, staring at a screen for too long will generally leave you feeling disconnected with reality and unbalanced, so just remember–everything in moderation!

And that’s it for today’s post. I do actually have a number of different meditations left on my list, but perhaps we’ll just have to make this one a two-parter ; )

What type of meditation works best for you? Do you have a different/unique form of meditation that you practice? I’d love to hear about it, so please share in the comments section below.

“I’m simply saying that there is a way to be sane. I’m saying that you can 
get rid of all this insanity created by the past in you. Just by being a simple 
witness of your thought processes.”
–Osho

Namaste,

Shannon

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How to Be Happy

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After many sleepless nights bent over a desk, slaving away at writing these books (and going a little crazy in the process), it finally happened.

I became an Amazon best-selling author.

I’m not sure exactly when, or how it happened, but all I can say is thank you. Thank you to all those who made the effort to download, read and review. It is because of you that I was able to make each subsequent version of each book better and better, thus helping more and more people in the process! I knew that this day would eventually come, although my conviction was tested from time to time.

This post is therefore about commitment. It’s about not giving up, no matter how tough the odds.

Henry Ford failed in his earlier businesses, always leaving him broke, five times before he founded the Ford company we know today.

Bill Gates originally dropped out of Harvard to start (and fail) a company called Traf-O-Data, before founding Microsoft.

Before reaching fame as the author of the Harry Potter series, J. K. Rowling was divorced, severely depressed and depending on welfare, all while trying to raise a child and attend school.

Colonel Sanders’ secret 11 herbs and spices recipe was rejected by businesses over a thousand times before he caught a break.

The testing director for MGM made a note of Fred Astaire after his first screen test: “Can’t act. Can’t sing. Slightly bald. Can dance a little.” 

Oprah Winfrey suffered through an abusive childhood and had a number of career setbacks before becoming one of the most iconic and influential women of our age.

Commit to your goals, 100%, whatever they may be. Believe in yourself and know that you can achieve. The only thing stopping you from realising your goals, your dreams, your desires—is yourself.

With the right attitude, anything really is possible.

“Use what you’ve been through as fuel, believe in yourself and be unstoppable!”
―Yvonne Pierre

Be sure to check out my newly updated books (complete with best-selling author stickers!) on happinessnow relevant to both men and women. (Click HERE)

With love,

Shannon

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